Sisiphi isizathu sokuba abantu abaninzi kwaye abaninzi abaninzi batshintshele kwiskena somnwe?

Ndiyazibuza ukuba ukhulule ukuba abantu abaninzi abakungqongileyo basebenzisa ixesha lokuqonda leminwe. Ngeli xesha, abahlobo abaninzi abangazange batshintshe ixesha lokuqonda kwabo ngexesha lokuqonda ukuba bayazithandabuza. Ngaba iskena seminwe sombane silula kakhulu ukuyisebenzisa kwaye ilula! Ngaba ukuyifaka kusombulula iingxaki kubomi bethu bemihla ngemihla?

Ngalo lonke ixesha ndifika ekhaya, ndiqhele ukubeka amaqhosha am apha, kwaye xa ndifuna ukuphuma, izitshixo zihambile, nto leyo ephambene.

Abantu abaninzi bahlala belibala ukuzisa izitshixo zabo xa bephuma, ke kufuneka banyuke ngaphezulu kodonga ukuba bagoduke, kuyingozi. Ukulibala ukuzisa izitshixo kunye nezitshixo ezilahlekileyo ziingxaki eziqhelekileyo kubomi bemihla ngemihla. Kutheni le nto ubomi bakho bokuba sisitshixo? Faka nje iskena somnwe.

Ezinye iintsapho ziya kubuza i-nanny ukuba icocekile kwaye inyamekele ubomi bemihla ngemihla. Nangona kunjalo, ngalo lonke ixesha batshintsha i-nanny, kuya kufuneka batshintshe itshixa ngokubanzi. Ukuba abatshintshi, abayi kuziva bekhululekile, emva kwayo yonke loo nto, isitshixo sisezandleni zabathengisi bangaphandle. Oku kungekuphela kwemali kuphela, kodwa nenkunkuma kangangexesha elithile. Ukuba yiskena somnwe, iya kuba lula. Kufuneka ucime yonke iminwe kunye nolunye ulwazi.

Intombazana enenceba ibuyela ekhaya yedwa ebusuku kwaye ilandelwa ngumntu ongamaziyo. Yintoni ekufuneka yenziwe ukuba ayinakufumana izitshixo zakhe kwaye azikwazi ukubiza amapolisa ukuze ancede ngokukhawuleza? Ukufaka iskena somnwe akunakuvula nje umnyango ngokukhawuleza kodwa unomsebenzi wokrelekrele okrelekrele ukukhusela ngcono ukhuseleko lwakho.

Okwangoku, imakethi ye-Scarner yeMinwe ezweni lam isenzulu kakhulu, kwaye umgangatho wexesha lokuthathela ingqalelo iminwe uyahlukahluka. Abathengi kufuneka balumke ngakumbi kwaye benze umsebenzi wabo wasekhaya xa kuthengwa. Sukutsalwa yimisebenzi ethile engenakuyinto. Kwanele ukukhetha iskena somnwe okhuselekileyo nesisebenzayo.