Ukuba uthenga ixesha lokwamkelwa komnwe, kufuneka unikele ingqalelo kule ngxaki

Kulula ukwenza amahlaya amaninzi ukuba ukhulule ixesha lokwamkelwa kweminwe kodwa ungayiqondi nzulu indlela yokusebenzisa ixesha lokwamkelwa kwexesha lomnwe. Kodwa ukuba uyahlalutya ngononophelo, enyanisweni, kuhlala kukho imingcipheko efihlakeleyo emva kwale joke. Njengomthengi, kufuneka ulumke ekusebenziseni ixesha lokwamkelwa kweminwe, kwaye uzame ukuphepha umngcipheko owahlukeneyo obangelwa kukusetyenziswa okungafanelekanga.

Ukuba ixesha lokuthathela ingqalelo iminwe alibekwanga, okungagqibekanga kukuba yonke iminwe ingavulela ixesha lokwamkelwa ngexesha. Xa abathengi bathengayo, ukwamkelwa kweminwe kunye nabavelisi bexesha lokubakho-rhoqo baya kuhlala kuboniswa kuye wonke umntu. Ngeli xesha, uninzi lwazo alumiselwanga. Umama kolunye umfanekiso unembono ecacileyo yeempawu zokwamkelwa kweminwe kunye nokuzimasa, kodwa kukuhlekisa ukusebenzisa i-paw yenja kunye nokuzimasa. Njengomfana oselula, ndaphinda ndalandela indlela kamama kwaye ndifuna ukuyizama. Kwanele 'ukuba "babini babini", kwaye zenza ukuba abantu bahleke.
Njengeskena somnwe, kuyafuneka ukukhumbuza wonke umntu ukuba kufuneka wenze le nto emva kokufaka ixesha lokwamkelwa kweminwe: Ukubuyisela inkqubo yolawulo lomlawuli, kwaye wenze kwakhona umnwe womsebenzisi, kwaye ufake umnwe womsebenzisi ngomlawuli. Inzuzo yento kukuba zonke iintlobo zeminwe ezingenisiweyo ngaphambi kokuba zicinywe kwaye zitshintshwe ngeminwe yakho, ukuze ezinye iindlela zingayi kuba nakho ukuvula ixesha lokwamkelwa kweminwe. Ewe kunjalo, ngelixa ubuyisela useto lwefektri, unokuseta iphasiwedi ngendlela.
Ngapha koko, ixesha lokuthathela ingqalelo iminwe elithengiweyo nje linephasiwedi efanayo nelowo sidibana nabo. Ukuba ufuna ukuphucula ukhuseleko, kufuneka useke kwakhona. Kuya kufuneka nditsho ukuba ulwazi lokhuseleko lukaMama lusendaweni, ekufanele ukuba kufundwe. Ukuba ikhaya lakho lixhotywe ngexesha lokuqonda ukubakho ngomunwe, kuya kufuneka "uyibeke" njengomama ngaphambi kokuba uyisebenzise.