Yeyiphi eyona nto ilunge kakhulu, ukubakho komnwe wokuqonda ukubakho okanye isitshixo esiqhelekileyo?

Kule mihla, abantu abathengayo ixesha lokuqonda leminwe abanokubekwa ngokwamanqanaba amabini. Inye ingulutsha olunomdla kwizinto ezintsha kunye nethemba lokufumana ubomi obungenamkhethe kwaye bube lula; Musa ukoyika ukulibala izitshixo zakho. Ngaba ucinga ukuba abantwana bakho bafuna ixesha lokuqonda umnwe?

Ukufaka ixesha lokwamkelwa kweminwe ekhaya Siye satsho ngaphambili ukuba kukho abazali abangakhathaliyo abatshixa abantwana babo abancinci kwigumbi legesi ngenxa yokuthenga ivenkile. Ukuba kukho indawo yokwamkelwa kweminwe, akukho sidingo sokukhathazeka ngazo zonke iintlobo zezinto ezingahambelaniyo kukhuseleko lwabantwana olubangelwa kukuzilibala izitshixo.
Ukufakelwa kwexesha lokuthakazelwa kweminwe ekhaya Kubantwana abancinci, kuyenzeka kakhulu kubazali. Ngokwesiqhelo xa ndiphuma, ndihlala ndiyibambe. Ukuba andizukuyibamba xa ndigoduka, ndihlala ndiphethe izinto ezininzi eziphosakeleyo. Kuyinto engalunganga ukuvula ucango. Ukuba unexesha lokuthakazelwa kweminwe, ungayivula xa ubambe umntwana wakho okanye uphethe izinto, ezilungele kakhulu.
Ukufaka ixesha lokuthakazelwa kweminwe ekhaya kuya kubakho kwakhona abantwana ukuba bave impumelelo yenzululwazi nobuchwephesha, kwaye bayeke abantwana bahlakulele uthando kwisayensi. Kubazali abaninzi, indlela yokukhulisa abantwana isentloko ebuhlungu. Ngokuqhelekileyo sixhasa imiyalelo nezenzo. Ukuba ifakwe ixesha lokuthathela ingqalelo ixesha lokuthathela ingqalelo ekhaya, abantwana banokuva lula ukuba lula ukuba bangeniswe ngesayensi ukuwusebenzisa yonke imihla. Kuya kufuneka nditsho ukuba indima yexesha lokwamkelwa ngomunwe lisenkulu!
Ewe kunjalo, kubantwana abancinci, abalunganga kakhulu ekusebenziseni iminwe yokuchonga ukuhamba isikolo. Nangona kunjalo, njengoko bekhula, ixesha lokuya ngexesha lokwamkelwa kwexesha elinokubathintela abantwana ukuba bangaphumi ngamaqhosha. Kuya kufuneka uyazi ukuba abantwana bangabalulekanga kakhulu. Yeyiphi eyona nto ilunge kakhulu, ukubakho komnwe wokuqonda ukubakho okanye isitshixo esiqhelekileyo? Izitshixo eziqhelekileyo zinokulahlekelwa ngenye imini. Endaweni yokulinda abazali ukuba bagoduke, kungcono ukufaka ixesha lokuthakazelwa kweminwe, ukuze abantwana bangene emnyango ngaphandle kwesitshixo. Ukuzimasa kweminwe yeminwe kungcono kakhulu kunezitshixo eziqhelekileyo.