Iminwe yokwamkelwa kweminwe yeminwe icinyiwe, kwaye iphasiwedi yolawulo ilibalekile, ndenze ntoni?

Ndiyakholelwa ukuba abahlobo abasoloko besebenzisa iskena somnwe uya kuba namava anje.

. Kule meko, eyona ndlela ilungileyo kukusebenzisa "ukubuyisela imeko yefektri yefektri" yendawo yokuqonda yomnwe.
Le ndlela ifuna ukungena kwiNdlu kwaye isebenze ngaphakathi. Kuba iqhosha elibuyiselweyo likwiphaneli engasemva yexesha lokwamkelwa kweminwe.
(2) Sebenzisa iqhosha elingxamisekileyo ukuvula isitshixo somnyango
Iqhosha lexesha likaxakeka lifunwa ngoku ngurhulumente ukuba lixhotyiswe, kodwa abanye abahlobo basenokungayilungisi kwangaphambili ngenxa yomkhwa. Kucetyiswa ukuba ushiye isitshixo songxamiseko njengezihlobo, abamelwane, okanye eofisini okanye kwimoto.
(3) Iphasiwedi yolawulo ityalwe. Ukuba akukho sitshixo sengxamiseko, ezinye iindlela zokuvula aziyi kusebenza. Kucetyiswa ukuba ubuze umalume womlilo ukuba usombulule ingxaki.
Abacimi-mlilo banokungena endlwini ngefestile, kwaye emva koko bavule ixesha lokuthathela ingqalelo ixesha lokuzimasa, okanye ukonakala kwexesha lokwamkelwa kweminwe ngaphandle. Ndabona imeko ngaphambili: ngenxa yokuba ixesha lokuthanda leminwe elithengiweyo ngumsebenzisi latshixwanga kwaye alikwazanga ukuvulwa ngaphandle, umntwana onamanqakwa atshixe umama emnyango, waqalisa ukulila emva kwexesha elide. Ngethamsanqa, umama womntwana wayezolile kwaye ngokuthe ngcembe wafundisa umntwana ukuba asebenzise iminwe ukuze achonge ukubakho, ngoko ke yasonjululwa. Kwelinye icala, umntwana wavalelwa kwigumbi lerhasi, kwaye umntwana wahlangulwa ngabacimi mlilo.
Ngokubanzi, kunzima ukuyalelwa ngexesha lokubakho kwexesha lokubakho ukuze ube neengxaki ngazo zonke iindlela zokuvula, kodwa izinto ezinjalo zinokwenzeka. Eyokuqala ayikuko ukuba yoyike, ithole kwaye ifumane indlela yokujongana nayo. Asizicebisi indlela yokutshabalalisa umnyango, kuba ucango lwexesha lokuyamkela iminwe lubaluleke kakhulu, kwaye umonakalo uyalahleka. Apha sikwakhumbuza abahlobo abaye bathengayo ukuba babekhona ukuba baqonde ukuba babekhona ukusebenzisa ixesha lokuqonda lomnwengo bobundlongoza bodwa, kwaye emva koko bafundise abazali kunye nokuba bakuphelise zonke iintlobo zeengozi ezifihlakeleyo, kwaye nkqu Ukuba kukho into engahambanga kakuhle, banokucinga ngaphezulu kwexesha elifanelekileyo.